Reminiscing

Many of us enjoy reminiscing on past events and certain periods of life.  Lately, I’ve found myself reminiscing a lot more.  Places I’ve been and people I’ve been with.  Wondering how differently things would have turned out if I had made better decisions or invested more in some friendships.

It’s crazy to think of where we’ve been and where we are now.  Reconnecting with old friends/classmates makes that contrast even more impressive.  Although I am not proud of every decision I’ve made in life, I do consider myself very blessed with the life I have today.  I am blessed with a beautiful wife and beautiful daughters, I am building a successful career, writing books that I hope to publish (sooner or later), enjoying the support of amazing family and friends, etc.

Can I say that this is all due to my decisions in life?  No way.  I’ve made decisions that drove me further from my goals.  What I am learning from all this is that no matter the nature or number of our mistakes/sins, God’s Goodness can never be outdone.

Any time you feel regret, shame, or guilt, simply admit it to yourself.  Then count your blessings.  Literally.  Look at all the great people you’ve been blessed with during those difficult times, all the great turns of events that helped you along.  See all the good that could not have come about otherwise.  It doesn’t justify our bad decisions, but it shows that we’re being looked after by someone or Someone.  Life isn’t as lonely as we may think it is.

Next time you see someone in a difficult situation, be there.  You may not be able to fix the situation, but you can be present to help that person pull through the current challenges.

Be a light to your world today!

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Gratitude with a Price

Today, Canada grieves the loss of a soldier who was shot by some gunman.  For many of us, our beloved country has always been a promoter of peace.  This morning’s incident shook the Nation’s Capital.  It reminds us that being peaceful doesn’t make us immune to hostility.  While feeling the frailty of our peaceful disposition, my heart goes out to all men and women in uniform who willingly risked their lives to ensure the security of its citizens.  They may often be taken for granted, but not today.  I am grateful to have civil servants fighting for my safety.  It’s unfortunate that this gratitude came from having our safety threatened.  My prayers today are offered for every single one of them.  May God bless them all and watch over them.